It was brought to my attention yesterday that a blog for Black Women written by a Black Woman was criticizing interracial advocacy site http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com and of course our blog. Now I’m used to criticism I expected heat when I created this blog, and you all have no idea how much hate mail I receive a week.Usually I dont respond much less make an article about it but I was shocked by the wording the author of the blog site used to describe the act of interracial breeding. She called it “ethnic genocide” really? Ethnic genocide?
Hmmmm, to me this shows how desperate non-white women are getting to “keep their men.” Ethnic Genocide? The holocaust was a genocide, Rwanda, Darfur, Cambodia, Invasion of Native American land those are genocides. Those are ethnic genocides! This just makes me angry because for me it displays pure ignorance. One of history, two of English and three of common sense. Why dont you go down to a child in Darfur and tell him or her that a black man marrying outside his race is “genocide” I’m sure they would love to hear that.
This humble blog may promote white women, interracial relationships, white beauty but I personally have never once condemned people who thought differently than me and I have certainly never used such inappropriate language. Yes, I disagree, I debate I state my case but I never suggested that black men and black women who get married are evil or wrong. As I’ve said many times on this site this is not a hate blog. I dont hate black women, me and my author Kevin might agree or disagree on that topic but even he does not HATE black women. And neither of us would call something as simple as choice “genocide.” Guess what black women and other non-white women there are black men out there who prefer and even honor white women.
But there are plenty of black men who love and honor black women. While I would hope one day interracial relationships of all kinds would be more frequent currently in America that is not that case, and not the case in Africa, or in Europe or in Asia. So what logic does your statement rely on? None!
I’m sick and fucking tired of black women getting angry when only a relative minority of black men marry outside the race. Are you that insecure? More than likely if you are having trouble getting a man it because there arent a lot of good men in the area or it is you! Sometimes it could be a mix of both. So this so called Genocide, its awful huh? Do you realize that Barack Obama wouldnt even exist had it not been for an “evil white woman” who raised Barack into a great man?
Did you know Fredrick Douglass one of the greatest leaders in African-American history was married to a white woman? Even before it was legal in America. Do you know that due to slavery many African-Americans are mixed race? That due to several things in American history many African-Americans are not 100% black? I’ll speak more on those topics in future articles the fact of the matter is its not “ethnic genocide” as you so crudely put it, its love. Maybe you have spent so much time in anger you have forgotten what love feels like. Maybe you should step outside your own race and go after a White guy or an Asian guy? So once again this shows me that Black Women and other non-white women are starting to feel the heat, the false stories of the “modern white devil” are starting to wear off. I mean if Iowa, Indiana, Colorado etc. can vote a black man into office I suppose not all white people and thus white women arent that bad huh?
I invite you to a cordial debate on the subject if you are reading this post I invite you to comment back on this. Feel free to state your mind, if you would like to take back your insensitive comment I wont hold it against you, and on another note I feel you have the full right to post your thoughts on your blog even if I feel they are wrong. This is a free country, and in this country I dont consider my father marrying my mother him killing off his ethnicity. I will always embrace the African side of me, hell I even celebrate Kwanza. I know where I stand, do you?
The only person that would call consensual relationships, between people of two different races, “ethnic genocide” is a racist. Another thing to add is the fact that it appears she didn’t talk about the many, and I mean many, blogs about black women and white men relationships. Where black women congregate and talk about how “no good” black men are. One such blog was called ‘White Women Suck’ where black women could go and bash white women to their hearts content. Yet, some black women would claim they don’t care when a black man dates/marries a white woman.
One such blog was called ‘White Women Suck’
Just checked that out. I’m not sure if it’s a blog made
by black women or white men.
Has lots of pictures of white men dating blacks and asians
so my guess is it’s made by a white guy
and not black women as you say.
For the record I have no problem with the fact these blogs exist. I just had a problem with her choice of words.
The guy who ran that blog did claim he was white. However, that doesn’t take away the fact that most people who were “fans” of that blog were primarily black women, not white men. He was trying to convince white men that white women were no good, yet all he attracted to his site were some pretty bitter women.
After reading the comments to this post I was curious so I googled ‘White Women Suck’, and found the blog being referenced to in one of the comments. Then I googled ‘Black Women Suck’, and sure enough there’s a blog for it too. Oh well, it’s a free world.
But I really like this blog. No hateful implication in the blogs title. It’s very well done and honest. It simply celebrates the white woman. But still it does more than that. It also deals with many of the social, political, and historical issues concerning white women too. This blog simply gives white women their due, which is becoming less and less common in this PC world we live in today. It’s definitely not a site for encouraging hate like the two blogs I googled above. This blog is made to be entertaining and is thought-provoking at the same time.
Maybe the bitter white guys
can hook up with the bitter black girls 😀
I typed ‘Asian women suck’ and i got nothing
for me Asian’s are the worst looking women.
I’m not into hate sites so i didn’t spend too long
looking at those two sites. Some people need to get out more.
This blogs cool though
even if i don’t agree with you guys all the time 😀
Hey, it is nice having you here you open up discussion and challenge our ideals but at least you also respect them in a way. Just the same how I can respect you. My dad really doesn’t like Asian women either said they have flat faces, asses and chests. lol
I very much agree with Tnameat and his perspective on this subject. It is reprehensible and ridiculous when they criticize inter-racial breeding as ethnic genocide!! And downright unacceptable to blame our blog as part of their fallacy and wrong-thinking.
In a way it is no surprise that some inter-race relationships are taking place—this is largely due to the appeal of the white woman.
Black women should recognize this is a fact (though as Tnameat points out it is still not all-pervading, as lots of black guys still marry & have relationships within their own race & culture!).
To my mind it simply proves that black and non-white women are jealous and ‘put out’ by the fact that the white woman are so appealing to many guys of all cultural backgrounds. They can’t accept that they are not always seen as appealing themselves.
—and maybe you should write a book (with excerpts) on all the hate mail you receive every week!
It might become a best-seller 🙂 Though I for one would not read it!
lol well if you wouldn’t read it where would all my sales come from?
I was thinking about this post again and couldn’t help wondering if the angry black woman complaining about ‘interracial breeding’ has ever sat down and thought to herself about all the accomplished people of color she admires?
If she did I bet it would really come as a surprise to her to know how many of them are the products of interracial unions between black men and non-black women. Just to name a few:
Jennifer Beals, Halle Berry, Lisa Bonet, Mariah Carey, Alicia Keyes, Vin Diesel, Derek Jeter, Dwayne (The Rock) Johnson, Mario Van Peebles, Tiger Woods, Sade, Jason Kidd, Jordan Sparks, Kimora Lee Simmons, Shemar Moore, and of course President Obama. This list could go on forever.
She needs to understand that interracial unions between black men and non-black women has not been a curse to the black race. IT HAS BEEN A BLESSING!
It truly has on another note the writer of the blog who made that comment erased the link to her site when I made this article and even took down her reply. Obviously I got to her.
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Yowzers
I’ll keep my mouth shut on this one!
No its okay, speak your mind.
Still haven’t figured out why black women are even mentioned on this site. As a black woman, a real live one, I don’t care about black men dating out. We shouldn’t be FORCED together. It’s not genocide, the African American race has been mixed up already. I’m encouraging black women to date out, to stop enabling and whimpering over black men that don’t want them. I also want black women to go beyond the states and seek men of African descent elsewhere. Why do black men that date out STILL get emotional over black women? There’s something there and I’m going to find out what via this site. smh. I’m dating out and I don’t concern myself w/t black men but I do not appreciate the libeling of my women. One fucking step at a time I always say.